Thursday, November 28, 2013

What I'm Thankful For.


This!  This right here is the form that always gets my attention. Toned, not bone skinny. No bulging muscles that give me nothing to hold on to and caress when I'm feeling soft.  A form, that in my eyes says 'testosterone' and I want all of it!  A beautiful cock that promises pleasure, fullness and lovely hanging balls!  Dark hair because I like dark things. ;) And eyes that look with passion. He makes me Thankful! 


And also this...

What else makes me Thankful this day are the memories I have of NB and our relationship. Even though I have no idea what the future holds and if we'll ever find our way back together again, as I thought of what I was Thankful for, my mind kept going back to him and his beautiful submission. So setting loss, hurt and heartache aside, I'd like to share the beauty of that submission.

There was nothing pretentious or insincere about NB's submission and his cuckold wiring. It has been deeply rooted since childhood and how it manifested throughout him was the driving force for me in my dominance over him. I am thankful for all the vulnerability he exposed to me; the beauty of his heart and the pleading in his eyes as I would take more and more control of him in ownership. I loved watching the struggle between the Alpha man he was to the world and the little boy inside wanting to be completely owned. Even at times needing desperately to be 'taken' by force. 

Which brings me to his lovely, adorable ass that I loved to prove my ownership as he groan with pain, mixed with pleasure, not sure if he could take more, then after, shyly asking for it again.

Today NB, I choose to be Thankful for you. Many emotions run through me these days, from frustration, anger, disappointment, confusion, sadness...but also softness over all we shared. I am thankful for the beauty of your honest submission to me and pray someday I'll find that again.

~ Vista

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Freezing cold in my neck of the woods!  Hope this warms all of you!

Just a beautiful pose... 


Runs my hands down his torso.... :)


Mmmmm... Yes... Commando and Buttonflies!

Monday, November 18, 2013

e[lust] edition #52 ~ Enjoy!

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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

He came in my shoes
Secret Pleasures and a Lifeline
Vulnerability as courage

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Golden Showers
If.

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

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Erotic Non-Fiction

Adressing my Master T
Afterglow, Wounded
Fantasy is Reality, or is it the other way...
Pig Tails? Really?
The Kilt and a Prom Dress
what i want
Whipped & Fucked
Because When You Look at Me, You See Me.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

SexyLittleIdeas - My Sex Rules
New Rule
Collar Envy (Warning this post is Mushy)
the flood.
Today I cried
Why I love NRE even when it scares me
Love, or Lack Thereof, for an Abuser
a) monogamy b) polyamory c) neither

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

More Than Just Orgasms
A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Bed
Sex By Numbers = Bad Sex

Erotic Fiction

Such a Good Girl
Spontaneous Combustion
Seasonal Changes
Wet...bound and gagged
Larry's Prom Date
Property's Prospective
Inspiration
SATURDAY NIGHT SPRINKLE [WW W74]
Evie and the Trainspotter
Don't Miss A Drop
Marked

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Sub Silent
7(Random)Suggestions for Submissives & Slaves
Communication in D/s Relationships

Writing About Writing

Seven Sex Books I Read, Plus One I Didn't
Thoughts on: The Blood Mage's Sacrifice
Desiring Faggotry

Events

EroticonUSA- Penny's Perspective

Blogging

From Prude to Proud Sex Blogger

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

As I go through my week enjoying my Tumblr page I'm always looking out for what I think would make wonderful Eye Candy!  I know my life is entering into another transition stage.  I can feel it in my bones. There is some sadness....NB has fallen into an emotional state that doesn't fair well with who we are and have been as a couple. Maybe things would be different if we lived closer, but then again, being apart helps me in being able to move forward without running to his side.

And then there is excitement at what may be ahead in my future. I have some ideas and plans I'm personally working towards. And if another primary turns up in my life... I damn hope he's local!!! ;) At least not states away!!!!

To fight the sadness that lurks around the corners of my soul, I find solace in my pics for today's Eye Candy!

This... I need to feel this hunger from a man again!


I find this pic beautiful and peaceful...love staring at him. 



I also love some meat and muscle on my men. Not too skinny. I need to feel their strength!

Thursday, November 14, 2013

If You Truly Love Me......


...You'll see me as the beautiful, wonderful, creative, sexual creature I am. You'll love my smell, and my taste and hunger to let it linger over your face when you have pleased me time and time again. You'll fantasize while away from me how you'll run your hands and mouth over my silken, firm body, and tenderly worship every crease and sweet fold.

...You'll dream of me while you sleep and wake with your cock hard and longing to feel my wet, warm walls wrapped around your shaft. A place that makes you feel accepted, loved and safe. You'll close your eyes and remember how I bring you life and purpose.  How no other place makes you feel whole, but by being by my side.

...You'll listen to my words as they bring you strength and know that my direction is your compass for life. You'll be my protector when other's try to cause me harm and although you know I can care for myself, you'll defend me to the death.

...If You Truly Love Me.....

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

We went from a great summer straight into winter where I live!  So cold!  Days are now shorter and the sun shines only on occasion.  I need to move to warmer weather!  These lovely images help in warming my soul and.... ;)

Just shift your feet again and those jeans will slip right off pet. 


No, I'm not going to kiss your toe after I stepped on it.  Just keep sitting like that.


This really gets me warm! Big smiles!

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

A very cold Saturday around here, cloudy and lots of wind.  But my heart has been warmed by a new submissive I stumbled upon. You never know when they'll just show up in your life. Seems promising and he's local...all the better. Butter did come to town but was conflicted and afraid to meet with me.  LOL  I bring out things in him that he has a hard time dealing with because of his conventional upbringing. Hopefully one of these days he'll come to terms with his wiring and give in and be happy for once.  I only remind him of what he chooses to miss out on in life.  So, it is always refreshing when you meet a submissive that knows who he is, is comfortable with that and wanting to move forward.  Life is just too short my friends.

Enjoy the wonderful Eye Candy!

You can not go wrong with Ink and well toned frames!


A lovely mix....


A firm ass is always in the mix!